By Poyen Ramos on June 6, 2016
They say when life gives you lemons, you make lemonade. But for Karla Gonzales, she didn't have a lot of lemons to begin with, and didn't exactly have the smoothest ride to reach where she is right now. Despite the odds, this hard-working lady overcame and surpassed the difficulties with flying 'maroon' colors.
Karla juggled between being an operations executive in a call center and studying (and finishing!) civil engineering in University of the Philippines Diliman. It wasn't really the most ideal position to be in for a 22 year old. But with the strength and values that was instilled to her when she was young, you could tell she had the makings of champion.
Getting through the obstacles
While some people are fortunate to have an easy life, Karla had it different. She was raised by her single mother and grandparents in Paranaque, and their primary source of income was a small stall in the local market. That was where her love for mathematics began.
"I basically grew up there. I took my naps after school inside the stall and I helped out as cashier during the busier times of the year. My mom claims this is how I started liking math from an early age."
It was going well for them for the most part until supermarkets started rising near the market, and the their business started declining. The situation started getting more challenging when she stepped into high school because aside from the steady decline of the family business, her mother got pregnant with her sister, and her grandmother got diagnosed with stage 4 liver cancer which eventually took her life 5 months later.
Despite the struggles, she was lucky enough to finish high school on time because of her full scholarship. Fast forward to college, it was another set of challenges she had to face.
"After high school graduation, I signed a 'study now, pay later' scholarship under a company that I rendered summer jobs. I was required to attend school during weekdays and work in the company during weekends. After first year though, the company pulled me off the scholarship because I was unable to meet the time requirements each week. Unfortunately, the sponsor needed me to pay back the cost for my first year's education by working full time on a trainee's rate. This was when I had to take a leave of absence from UP during the first semester of my second year because it took me 6 months to pay everything back."
Drastic changes started happening in her life during her third year in college: she was living away from her family so she could be closer to school, and her mother's small business had to close down again because of some circumstances that transpired. Because of this, they were again left with the prospect of being separated and solely supported by her aunts.
"This time didn't sit well with me because although they were willing, I knew it was going to be doubly hard because they each had their own kids to support and mortgages and bills to pay. This was the time I realized I needed to find a job if I wanted to continue studying."
The ups, downs, and in betweens
And just when she thought all hope was lost (well, not really), a great opportunity presented itself to her.
"I heard from a friend that Teleperformance Ayala had an account that caters students working part time. This was when UP adjusted the academic calendar from June to August," says Karla who grabbed the opportunity in an instant. "Needless to say, it was physically and mentally draining. I barely got to see my family since I had to sleep all day."
It wasn't easy juggling between work and school according to Karla. And the Metro Manila commute was one of them. She live in Las Pinas, works in Makati and studies in Quezon city. The commute was unbearable and the expenses were difficult. It got even harder when she entered the last two years of her course because it was purely civil engineering major subjects they had to go through.
"It was hard to adjust since my schedule wasn't fixed. Sometimes I work in the morning and attend class in the afternoon, and sometimes I have class in the morning and work in the afternoon until evening."
But despite having to balance between submitting projects, problem sets, and sit down for exams while maintaining a high performance at work balancing her AHT (average handling time), sales conversion, schedule adherence, and call quality to qualify for the monthly performance incentives, she never thought of calling it quits even though she was having a hard time.
"To be honest, I don't think I ever wanted to give up. There was too much hope and determination running through me that even though I knew I was going to have a tough time, I was never going to stop until I finish what I started," explained Karla.
There were times when Karla would envy her friends who only need to worry about school, while she had to think about budgeting pay checks, and making reports. But every time this happens, she thinks of what her mother always tells her. "She tells me that we can make it through one day at a time, and when we eventually make it to the end, the victory will be so much sweeter."
The strength and backbone of success
When asked where she gets her strength to pull through, Karla made no hesitation. "My mother and my sister were my main sources of strength. I admire my mother her courage in facing everyday challenges, her positive outlook in seeing every situation, her perseverance in being both mother and father for my sister and I, her tenacity in voicing out her opinion when she knows there's something not right, her ease in forgiving people."
Her colleagues from work and classmates didn't lack in the support department as well. Karla describes them as stress relievers and great encouragers. They would easily exchange life stories and boost each other whenever they don't meet their targets. Her classmates, she explains, are amazing. "I wouldn't have survived countless requirements without their help. Whenever I missed a class due to illness, they would step up and offer to help me catch up."
Of course, the heart isn't an exception. Karla describes the support from her boyfriend as indescribable. "I shared all the ups, downs, victories, failures, frustrations, doubts and most importantly, food trips. He was there all throughout and I couldn't be more thankful."
If you could give a piece of advice to your peers, what would it be?
"To all the undergraduates out there, especially those who have encountered failures, I would just like to say kudos to you. Through your failures, you'll learn more than you can ever learn from your successes. Through your failures, you'll discover the strength and resilience that you possess. Through your failures, you'll stand up once again and finish what you've started and in the end, the victory will be so much sweeter.
To my fellow call center agents who feel like it's never the right time to fulfill their dreams, I would just like to say that the best time to start working on your dreams is NOW. You'll always feel that you're not ready but when you're already on that path, you'll do everything for that dream to come true."